Marriage, Faith, and Unbelieving Spouses: Stay, if They Will

Jun 8, 2025    John Holmes

MAIN IDEA: In a world where marriage is often treated as disposable, God calls His people to reflect His covenant faithfulness by honoring their vows, staying committed even when it’s hard, and believing that He can use their perseverance as a means of grace and salvation in their home.


WHAT IS TRUE: Marriage is a covenant to be honored, not a contract to be canceled. Believers married to unbelievers are not to abandon the marriage. God may use the believing spouse as a vessel of grace and salvation. Even children in mixed-faith homes are influenced by the faith of their believing parent.


WHAT TO DO: Honor your marriage vows made before the Lord. Whether your spouse is a believer or not, your commitment reflects Christ’s covenantal love for His bride—your endurance matters. Trust God’s work in a spiritually divided home. Be patient and prayerful when your marriage is difficult. If you’ve sinned in this area, there is grace. If divorce or abandonment has marked your story, remember: Christ’s blood is sufficient. Repent, seek His mercy, and walk in faithfulness today. Do not let your past regrets or hurt define your life. Let Christ shape it. The gospel restores.